Monday, February 25, 2013

The Big Numero Uno & Number Two.


What an exhausting month February has been! Karson turned one on Feb. 8th. We had a medium sized soiree, which included monsters, pizza and a crowded kitchen. Wouldn't be a party with my family if we weren't all packed into the kitchen like sardines. Kurt absolutely loves it, and by loves it he scratches his head in awe how we can all get along in such close quarters. Most of the time I am holding my breath that we have a successful party and no one pissing anyone else off. Success, this time around! The day started early. I had all the decorations laid out the night before and had done the big cleaning chores and we were ready to go. Kurt's dad showed up early, as did my great aunt and uncle...this is usual. They entertained each other while Kurt hopped in the shower and I hurried along to get out of my stained sweatpants. With not a moment to spare, the party started. We opted for pizza this time around; to be honest we were still recuperating from Thanksgiving and Christmas. I am so glad we did pizza, easy clean up too! The monster decorations turned out good, I know next time to research the theme prior to making any purchases. Monsters are not the "in thing" these days, so I ended up making the majority of them, including the invitations. The cupcakes my mom got were ginormous. I hope they were yummy, I didn't even get a taste, and cake is not my thing. Obviously, it was not Karson's either, he wouldn't even touch it. Had it been vegetables he would have been all over it. Karson was spoiled with gifts and attention. He is a very loved little boy! Only regret from the day, I forgot to videotape.

Of course after the weekend celebrations Karson was due at the doctor for the annual shot fest. He always falls asleep for the shots; he wears himself out with worry and fear when the doctor is visiting that by the end he passes out. He woke up for his four big shots, a couple cries later and then we were informed he had to have blood drawn for lead levels. He just about broke my heart; I think the situation was exacerbated by my ragging second trimester hormones. It took a couple days, but he for the most part started acting like himself again. Until Saturday at 2:45 am when all hell broke loose. I was awakened by the exorcist baby, who was literally levitating off the bed, spinning in circles. He would not let us touch him and he was screaming like someone was stabbing him. We let it go on for about 20 minutes, we were in shock and clueless as to what the heck happened. Kurt couldn't take it and called the doctor, we knew that it was most likely constipation, he hadn't gone in a couple days and we were in the middle of switching from formula to milk. The doctor gave us instructions to pick up some supplies, neither of us wanting to leave Karson, we called on grammy to save the day (mind you, Kurt and I went out for a couple hours previously in the evening only to get a call from grammy saying Karson was not feeling well, right again for Grammy). She arrived packing a survival kit: enema, stool softner, glycerin suppositories. We started the hour’s long process of inducing poop. I won't get into the specifics, but let's just say it wasn't pretty. Finally, the magic happened and Karson was pooped. He passed out sitting up at about 4:45 am. We slept in the next day and everything seemed to be back on track. We were all anticipating the worst, doing everything to make sure it didn't happen again. We thought we were in the clear.

That was until this week when Karson started to develop signs of a cold. He was very lethargic and spent one night bundled up on the couch with his Dad. I knew right then and there something was wrong with my kid. The next night I went to work and my mother insisted on keeping Karson overnight. Kurt was exhausted from the last couple days of work so he gave in. My phone rang at 3 am that morning reporting Karson had a 102 degree fever. I called and woke up Kurt, who drove down the road to assist the situation. Once again the doctor was called, we were told to monitor the fever and bring him into the doctor's that morning. I left work late due to a co-worker who called out sick and barely made it to the doctor's. Report was Karson had a virus. Yay! No medications to treat except the Motrin we had been using. It was too late though I had gotten sick. Just when we thought it was safe Kurt got it and now grammy is starting. We are still recuperating.

Sunday, we quarantined ourselves home. Kurt and I noticed during lunch that Karson was in his highchair trying to number two. Poor thing was turning purple. We thought for sure there would be an after lunch surprise awaiting us, we were wrong. Would have lost that bet. Kurt was up in arms hoping that this would not turn into the events from last weekend. I decided we would go to the grocery store, let him play; see if he could work it out naturally. Well, dinner approached, same Karson, trying to go. It got to the point where he was crying and I knew we were in for it. I put in a call to grammy for backup. I knew I had to learn how to handle this sooner versus later. The poor baby had a poop blockage, literally. Several wipies, one glycerin suppository and a pee drenched Daddy later and the ordeal was over. Lesson learned: do not allow your child to consume a lot of corn. Karson had eaten so much his poop literally came out as corn on the cob. Ridiculous, we know. Those of you who know Kurt and I personally our lives revolve around shit, it is only appropriate that I share this story with you.

We are showing!

In all seriousness though, it’s tough to see your little one hurt, regardless of the cause. We are really hoping things start to turn around for Karson. It’s been a rough year one so far.  Hopefully, Karson will have a sense of humor like ours, it’s much easier to laugh than cry. We laugh a lot!

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